Better late than never

So I got my period. I was 3 whole days late. Guess even good old Aunt Flo isn't predictable at times. I took an HPT at work on Friday and while I was very relieved to not be pregnant a little tiny part of me was kind of sad. Such a mixed bag of emotions pregnancy brings to me!

Being late forced me and my husband to have a talk, one I am really glad that we were able to have. Maybe it was a sign? Or maybe just screwed up hormones? Anyhow, we have decided to start TTC after my next cycle. We are not charting or using ovulation predictors, basically just shooting to the breeze and seeing what comes of it. We will never be ready. There will be no perfect time. Baby K #2 will come when he/she is good and ready. Since I can't control any bit of that I will assert my control in doing the following things before I get pregnant :

Lose at least 5 pounds

Drink less

Eat better

Exercise more

See....I could find something to control!